Just had a short MSN conversation with ** which significantly raised my blood pressure, so much so I can't concentrate on my MSNing. It all started innocently enough when I asked him why he didn't reply to my SMS, and it ended with him berating me on choosing which group of friends to go out with.
I had arranged to go bai nian at the dog's and veggie's place today but the timing was still unconfirmed. Then **'s group said they wanted to go bai nian today as well, so my reply was and I quote "Maybe... See what time i visiting another group, if i'm there, i'm there..." I did not want to commit as dog and veggie definately took precedence over ** and if the timing would allow me to visit both, then all well and good, else it would be dog and veggie as originally planned. That SMS was sent yesterday morning and by evening, the timing to visit dog and veggie had been confirmed and they clashed with **'s outing. Hence I told ** last night that I won't be going as I was meeting another group of friends.
The icing on the cake came from my short conversation just now with ** and I quote "
there's sth wrong if u tell ppl who jio u out that u r gonna wait to see if there r better offers to spend ur time, tt u'll come if there arent any."
I mean would it have been better to say yes first then cancel it later when the timings to meet dog and veggie were confirmed. Or to say no outright then change it to yes if the timings are suitable. F*** it man, so I'm being faulted for trying to have the best of both worlds, or because I prioritise dog and veggie higher than **? I've known dog since pri school and veggie since sec sch, they definately stand way up there on my list of friends. Ah well, ** told me not to explain myself but it really irritated me and I needed to vent it off somewhere... Anyway, it's over now...
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